D/s Standstill

For the past 2 to 3 weeks are D/s has been at a standstill. The mean reason is because of the 6-7 days a week Sir is working. He comes home tried and is not always in the Dom mind frame. When he comes home like that it throws my submission off and I tend to slip out of a submissive mindset. Granted I still greet him at the door when he gets home and unlace his boots for him (if one the kids don’t me to it first). I always have dinner ready by the time he gets home, unless otherwise told, because sometimes he wants to go out to eat. I was just thinking this morning what are some things I can do to help him with his Dom mindset and how I can prevent myself from slipping. One thought that came to mind was to kneel before him and present myself to him. On a side note, I don’t get a chance often to kneel before him especially with kids at home and also because we have limited space. Our home away from home while we travel is a camper, if you ever been in one you will know there is not much room and especially in the bedroom depending on the lay out of the camper. Anyways, back to the kneeling, where will I kneel at, in the living area after the kids go to bed or a the side of the bed where there is some room, will I be dress or naked, should I wait for his cue to pleasure him or will I take into my own hands and start pleasuring him. Then my mind wanders will Sir accept or will he be too tried to. All I know is that I want us to get back on track and back into everyday D/s, not just when ever the mood strikes D/s.

I know it is hard to have a Sir who works a lot or that travels for days, weeks, or months at a time. We have been going through it for almost 4 years now. But in the end it will make you stronger and bond you both closer together. Feel free to share you thoughts with me.

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2 thoughts on “D/s Standstill

  1. I wrote a blog about this too today. You should listen to the podcast I linked to.


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